fix a weird crash in reminders - may have killed reminders

fix loading from config

migrate config to One Big File ;; make a map of a=b values for config ;; rewrite reminders to be a slice

fix check for empty reminders list

fix bugs in dump and reminders

add Remove handler, add bullshit, fix config files (need refactoring badly), update help text

fixed a bug which didnt check for errors, causing rare crashes over time

remove debug for remindme

added functioning remindme

most of remindme done; need to fix time interval counting