migrate to ndb config in $home/lib/disco.ndb ;; clean up some error messages and factotum handling

add all sorts of fixes, factotum support, etc. all thanks to halfwit ?

update documentation

add better notification handling ;; add :c ? ;; add :c n ;; all thanks to halfwit

update TODO ;; forgot the big thanks to halfwit ?

partially fix pm's ;; fix @'s ;; fix emoji printing ;; add :u ;;

TODO update

more TODO

add aux/statusmsg notifications for 9 ;; fix -t timestamp bugs (both thanks to halfwit)

merge

cleanup

merging todo

todo

todo

clean up from 9 space

merge